My best friend's diary...

"you have very good sense of humour" the compliment i have received several times in my life.Sometimes i think,what people make feel that i have great sense of homour.Its the virtue of mine to make fun of others that makes others burst into laughter except one,who is the victim.I think its a good deal to make nine people laugh even if one is suffering.

Many times i have tried healthy humour,but got not that much response that i usually get in making fun of someone.Even in some laughter show that are being telecast these days,you can find the comadian making fun of someone whether it is a celebrity or any politician or some public figure. I only like 'Raju Srivastav' who delve into small thing & come out with a really healthy humour.

In india,people love to laugh at something,in which , there is not a single bit of humour. Even people laugh at those who laugh loudly in a garden early in the morning.In india, if a group of people is laughing, you can sure of that someone is being victimised.

i found that " India is a hillarious country with no sense of humour"

There is always a person to whom we share all our secrets, tell all our problems,celebrate all festivals, B'days & who give us Jaadu ki Jappi(hug),when we are in trouble. Who jumps along with you, when you get pass the exam. The person whom we called as Friend.

Friendship is the only relationship which has no boundation to abide it with.You can choose your friend.You don't get them by birth.friends are always made to order .If you don't want your friendship more, you can break it.This is the virtue of friendship.

When we like someone as a friend. At that moment we become all his/her.We exchange vows to keep our friendship forever.We love his good,we love his bad.We talk to each other as much we can.Even if there is no topic to discuss about,we create it.

After half an hour, i'll become 23. It's my b'day. This b'day, i want to dedicate to all my friends, who have made my journey of these 23 years beautiful. Some of them are still in touch with me, some are not. But i always remember the time , i spent with them.

Yesterday,we all friends were sitting together, having fun. Some of us have a habit of finding flaws in others.It's been a long time,we all are doing this & really enjoyed a lot.

But finally we decided not to debug anyone & overlook the weaknesses of others. Because if you look for flaws, you'll surely find them.Instead of finding flaws,we should see the good thing that each one of us possesses.we can learn from everyone.Everyone has a story to tell or a joke to share.

As we are far away from our Home.The only people who take care of us are friends.And,friends are so important for a happy living.

So be mature enough to ignore small flaws of your friends.Because there is nothinG like F.R.I.E.N.D.S

i always wanted to get wet in Heavy rain. But i don't know why i had not. May be i was very protective or restrict myself to do some stupid things.

But a friend of mine in my college days always dragged me in heavy rain.i remembered, one day before exam there was heavy rain & he came to me & said 'chal ajay, barish me bheegte hai'. But i said 'yaar maan to hai, par muje padna hai'.

Then he said.
'Kutta maro...billi maro
par Maan ko mat maro'

and we both went outside & enjoyed a lot.

And same thing happened a few days back. i was watching TV & there were raining outside. I was wanted get wet in rain & then i remembered my friend's words. i went outside in the rain. Though i was alone but i enjoyed a lot.

A song is coming in my mind:
Cchai cchapa chai....cchapak ke cchai
paniyo pe ccheete...udati hua ladka

PS: pagalpanti bhi Zaruri hai

I have never encountered an accident & don't want to.
But i remembered an incident that i want to share with you

After +2 i went to Kota for IIT preparation.It's been one & a half month, i was away from my Home.Before that i have never been keep away from my parents for a single day.On Rakhi i got 3 days leave. We were four friends from my Hometown.But i reached at Bus stand a little late & i got a different Bus.I called my parents that i am leaving and will reach at 7:30 in the morning.

Bus started moving at 9:30. As there were no-one to talk.I put earphone of my SONY walkman.It was my favourite entertainment tool that time.I don't know when i started dozing off.I wake up at 5:30. I saw a milestone written as Chittorgarh-60Km.I was shocked.I asked them person beside me.He told me we were stuck in traffic-jam for 3 hrs.As i don't have mobile phone that time.So i couldn't call at home.I took it normally & again went back to my dream world.

But on the other side, at my home,things were not so normal.Time was passing by 8:30, 9:00, 9:30. All my friends who were just half an hour early,had reached home at 7:40.My father then called Travel agent and he told that an accident had been reported and they are trying to confirm it as they don't know which Bus got accident.And things became worse at my home.

I reached home at 10:30. As i entered in my home, ambience was unusual. My Mom was crying in a corner of the room and my papa was consoling her and My brother was sitting besides phone,having a small tear about to come out.When they saw me,i can't tell you how that situation was.They hugged me & asked me, 'why are you so late?'I told them about the traffic jam.But i was puzzled and i asked them 'what happened to you all?'. Then they explained everything.

I realized then 'May be parents are not everything for us, But Children are everything for them'.

One day i was eating an Apple. It has small part rotten. I threw it into dustbin.My friend scold me for doing so. he said, you can cut that rotten part & eat the rest of it.

You can find an fresh Apple without any rotten part, but you cannot find a friend without a bad part.Sometimes depression sets in.Happens to all of us. we try hard, stay true to our friends.yet miscommunication occurs.Maybe there is something about our friend that we don't like. We should ignore this.we should not forget the time we spent together & which made you smile.

When a bad things happens,
1.why we start hating that person, to whom with we have spent some best days of your life?

2.why things get change?

3.why a bad thing overpowers thousand good things?

4.why we start regretting on making friends?

P.S. Never regret on something, that made you smile atleast once.

Any person,we know in our life other than our parents & relatives, we called them friends.But i think there are two type of friends. One,to whom we hang around & have fun. But when we depart, we never miss them.

and the other, to whom we share our secrets.To whom we tell our problems and when he/she console us, we feel good.I have spent some good time with my friends of type 1, but i never miss them.And there are some friends,i called them of Type 2, still are in touch with me in every step of my life.They share their happy moments,they share their problems.

I always tell my friends , use me as a Trash Can of your life.Whatever garbage is in your life.Just throw into me. i won't complain.I'll always there for you.

I always fair at my side & never expect the same.That's keep me happy all the time.

But, i believe 'A friend in need is a friend indeed'.